I am accessing my Debian Lenny server from a laptop running MS Vista. VNCViewer (realvnc) loads up fine, but I have to walk to the Debian machine and click "Allow" on a pop up window that says a user is trying to control the desktop and has 2 buttons - ALLOW REFUSE. Once I click ALLOW the desktop shows up on my laptop fine. What do I need to do on the Debian machine to allow me to connect via VNCViewer without having to click ALLOW on it every time I want to connect?

I have followed the procedure outlined in the article http://www.debian-administration.org/articles/512, Software RAID5 and LVM with the Etch Installer, TWICE and the install hangs up at the stage where it is Install and Configure SOftware! Earlier, during the paritioning and setting up RAID 1 and RAID 5 and LVM, a got a message that the system should be rebooted so it will be aware of the partitions. I did not do that, as it was not mentioned in the article. What am I doing wrong? I am installing on a Dell Poweredge 2550 using 4 73gB SCSI drives.I have re-low-level formatted all 4 drives and am awaiting guidance to accomplish this install. Thank you so much!